{"id":16317,"date":"2018-07-23T06:23:04","date_gmt":"2018-07-23T06:23:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/?p=16317"},"modified":"2018-07-23T06:23:04","modified_gmt":"2018-07-23T06:23:04","slug":"9-speaking-habits-that-will-make-you-sound-smarter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/2018\/07\/23\/9-speaking-habits-that-will-make-you-sound-smarter\/","title":{"rendered":"9 speaking habits that will make you sound smarter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are four kinds of speakers in the business world:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The incoherent, who meander, use tons of jargon, and talk of things interesting mostly to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The coherent, who can verbally communicate facts and opinions but seldom say anything memorable.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The articulate, who speak succinctly and clearly but whose words are seldom persuasive.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The eloquent, who use language and body language to win the hearts and minds of listeners.<\/p>\n<p>Eloquent people sound smart, regardless of how intelligent they are.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The opposite is true as well. Smart people who are incoherent\u2014 like some engineers I&#8217;ve known \u2014 often come off as if they&#8217;re of limited intelligence.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, eloquence is a skill that can be taught, practiced, and mastered. Here are nine easily mastered techniques to quickly make yourself more eloquent and smarter-sounding.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1. Stand or sit with spine straight but relaxed<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Eloquence is more than just how you use language. It&#8217;s also how you use your body language. The position of your back is the foundation of your body language and therefore the root of your eloquence.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Slumping communicates a lack of confidence in yourself and your words. The other extreme, a ramrod straight back, says &#8220;fight or flight.&#8221; A straight but relaxed spine puts you in a mental and physical state from which words flow smoothly and easily.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>2. Keep your chin up<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The position of your head is just as important as the position of your spine, a fact reflected in many common expressions. To &#8220;hold your head high,&#8221; for example, is to show pride and determination. To be &#8220;downcast&#8221; means you&#8217;re already beaten down.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>An upright head is essential for eloquence for physiological reasons as well. A tense neck \u2014 inevitable if your head is facing down \u2014 tends to strangle your words, preventing you from speaking clearly.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>3. Focus on your listeners<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Eloquence is meaningful only if people are listening to you, and they won&#8217;t listen if you&#8217;re thinking about something else or if your eyes are wandering all over the room. Eloquence without attention is mere speechifying.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Two special cases: Avoid glancing sideways \u2014 it makes you seem dishonest, i.e., shifty-eyed. If you must check your notes, use your eyes to look downward without nodding your head.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>4. Speak loudly enough to be heard<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For maximum eloquence, speak loudly enough so people farthest from you can hear but not so loudly that it&#8217;s uncomfortable for those in front.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re unsure of your volume, ask somebody in the back if they can hear you clearly. If they answer yes, say &#8220;How about this?&#8221; in a voice slightly less loud. If they answer no, crank your voice up a notch.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But never raise your voice to a yell. Yelling makes you sound insane rather than eloquent. If you find yourself in that position, either ask for a microphone or request that people move closer.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are four kinds of speakers in the business world: &nbsp; The incoherent, who meander, use tons of jargon, and talk of things interesting mostly to themselves. &nbsp; The coherent, who can verbally communicate facts and opinions but seldom say anything memorable. &nbsp; The articulate, who speak succinctly and clearly but whose words are seldom persuasive. &nbsp; The eloquent, who use language and body language to win the hearts and minds of listeners. Eloquent people sound smart, regardless of how intelligent they are. &nbsp; The opposite is true as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":16318,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30,25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16317"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16317"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16317\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16321,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16317\/revisions\/16321"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banglanewsus.com\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}